Thank you for your input. Unfortunately, OM is divorced already. So OM's W is most likely not interested. I know last time her mother pressured her a lot, but not openly. Her BIL (we became very good friends after marrying two sisters) was the most disapproving of the PA and her walking away. In the current situation, I will definitely not do anything. It could literally kill my MIL. But somehow I need to make it clear to my W that if she pulls the trigger on the D, I am going to tell them the entire truth including the EA. What I need to figure out is whether this would just piss her off or if it could actually stop her from proceeding. I am almost certain that time is my friend as far as the EA is concerned.
Thanks again, AN
M43 W45, M17 S9 D6 Bomb: 11/11/08 EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ? Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09 Healed, but still heading for D My situation
