Hey AN
Just catching up on your post.
In my sitch, I have talked to OM's W and MIL.
It only stopped the A for brief moment even the OM's W contacted my W.
My W and OM are on and off past months. I guess the OM's W is somewhat watching him.
MIL doesn't agree on what she does, but she doesn't really confront her.
As of today, I think they are together again.
I think you can put a pause to the EA by exposing, but for how long? It is really up to your W/OM to decide when to stop.
Best of luck.

NW626


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