Hey AN Just catching up on your post. In my sitch, I have talked to OM's W and MIL. It only stopped the A for brief moment even the OM's W contacted my W. My W and OM are on and off past months. I guess the OM's W is somewhat watching him. MIL doesn't agree on what she does, but she doesn't really confront her. As of today, I think they are together again. I think you can put a pause to the EA by exposing, but for how long? It is really up to your W/OM to decide when to stop. Best of luck.
NW626
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