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A punch isn't nearly enough! I think he deserves...well, we already talked about that now didn't we????

Hang tough...you're good!

Amy


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Well...I actually did that....but I slapped him across the face...it was reaction....I just received the anonymous email and I thought I was going to pass out....seriously....so I came down the steps and there he was...it was like God put him there...

He told me the affair lasted a while....then the kid,then he found someone else to have an affair with and all the while I thought he was in love with me...how stupid I was....


BG...my H does that sometimes too....comes in and crashes on the couch...they know where they are comfortable....they just won't admit it....

Take Care....


Treese

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M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity




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thanks girls, actually, the thought of even grabbing them to rip them off makes me sick lol.

Treese he emailed me to tell me, i puked and almost did pass out, luckily for him he wasnt here, altho i did notice today, none of our guns are in the gun cabinet! hey lets practice this, we arent stupid THEY are for not just keeping us!


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((((((BG))))))

I can connect you with Treese. I'll send the info to SMW.

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Hey BG, have a great Thanksgiving sweets!

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I just got caught up and am so sorry! You hang in there BG!


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
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5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
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{{BG}} Well I'm glad you got a second to breathe and get your bearings..let us know how your night turns out my friend!

Tawnya


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Bomb 10/11/08
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BG-I will assume he hasn't woken yet. You can do this. You know you can do whatever you want.


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Babygirl,

Don't say ANYTHING. Just LISTEN. Give nothing; expect nothing. If he asks you what you think, or asks you for any response, just say "I'm listening. I have nothing to say to you right now." If he says he's worried about YOU, just confidently say "Oh, I'LL be fine. That's the least of my concerns right now," and give him nothing else.

He doesn't DESERVE your response right now!

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PDT-excellent direction. Wanted to ask, how did you get and email that W logged onto computer and see what she was looking at? I'm a little technically challenged sometimes and am always amazed at things that can be done. I'm lucky I can use the speed dial on my cell. LOL

BG-Have a good Turkey Day. H working tomorrow so I will be able to talk more openly if you need to call. Love you.


If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
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