A, He's trying to make himself feel better about the holiday. Believe it or not, he really does feel bad about how things are right now and he really doesn't want you to spend the holiday alone. However, I don't blame you for now going..you weren't invited and besides, I'm sure you wouldn't feel too comfortable being there either.
Plan something special for you for tomorrow.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.