Sophie, You are going to have days when you feel like "dirt". Why? Because you are a human being and have true feelings and want to do the right thing. Trust me when I say this....right now, your h is out for himself and only himself. He is on one heck of an emotional coaster ride and that ride doesn't include you. You have to do what you must to protect yourself, your children and your financial assets. You do not want to go into the credit pit w/him.
I understand how you feel. Allow the emotions to wash over you and then rinse them off. It's time to think about the holiday and get moving! Your family needs your full attention right now. If your h opts to come great, if not....more food for you and your family.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
