Main difference, though Woog--you are separated from your kids part of the time because Nicole decided she needed to walk away.
In this case, Dan is making the choice to walk away, he is bringing this on himself....I know, he isn't choosing to leave the kids, but that is a natural consequence of leaving me...
And Kerry, no I don't eat ostrich. I eat beef, pork, some turkey, salmon, some whitefish, lobster, and crab. NO duck/elk/deer/buffalo/ostrich for me....
When your husband brings home filets, strips, and ribeyes, why eat anything else?? Although he has always done the grilling so I have a lot to learn...
I am sure H is upset with himself. He knows he 'blew it', knows he is breaking up his family. I am even 90% sure he wants to want me, he just doesn't know how to anymore or finds it too difficult to try...