You're "more tolerant of clutter"? Find me a guy who isn't.
Please meet my husband. He hates clutter. He says he can't relax. Me, on the other hand, I'm fine with a bit of clutter. I like a home that looks lived in. A home that looks like a place where children play. Not dirty by any means, but lived in. My husband would be happy living in an operating room (sterile and clean).
LOL, I forgot about the OCD husbands...
My W used to say I'd be fine living out of a cardboard box. She's actually right, I don't need much. And I think she's spoiled. Marriage is so fun
I still think taking away these little excuses are a great way to get a W's attention. Maybe she'll start to realize you arent' the problem.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK