The next stage, maybe

[AliSuddenly]

Yeah.. I agree with option 3, just meet/call/speak to him.. all this emailing/texting does my head in! You never really know whats going on with someone, until you can look into their eyes. And in the case of my ex, you still cant tell even then, as his eyes are dead and unfathomable..

I dont think it would 'blow' your sitch if you just casually, friendly like, ask him to call for a chat about it, or meet for a coffee/drink and a bit of a catch up. Better than texting back! (or ignoring him).

What have you got to lose at this point?

Al x