Hey ITH...

So many positives, I cant keep up! It must be exciting that things seem to be going in a steady, upward trajectory.. if not there yet?

I am not surprised you feel nervous, when he doesnt show up.. you havent had THE talk yet.. he hasnt reassured you yet that he is recommitting.. so just do what you can to go easy.. I would say, next time he is a little late DONT text and dont call him! Try and distract yourself and 'trust' that he will be home soon. Did he say why he was late, or was it no big deal?

Its interesting that he said about a big purchase when he graduates (when is that?) so, he is thiking a little further ahead right!

So happy for you :-)

Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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