Interesting comment from h the other day. He called me one evening and said he was out drinking with his cousin, and may want to come over later (wink, wink) would that be OK? I told him it would be fine...I was in the mood anyway.
So, he comes over about 2am, we have sex, small talk a bit, then he gets up to leave. I was still in bed, and he walked out of the room, paused, walked back in and said, "You want to know something? When we were first married, and I worked the early morning shift, I asked you to wake up with me and have breakfast with me, and you said no. That really hurt my feelings." Where the HELL did this come from?? And what would an appropriate response be to this? I don't want to wake up at 5am to have breakfast, when I can sleep until 8. I still think today my answer would still be no. I mean, now that I know it hurt him so much, maybe I would, but what does he want me to say to that now? Then he told me that I act like I don't care, and if I really loved him I would show him and walk him out to the door.
!!!!He comes over at 2am, wakes me up for sex, and I'm supposed to walk him to the door??
Anyways, I wanted to use this forum to vent, because I was ever so sweet to him, but seething inside.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."