Thanks so much WC and BG. I really appreciate hearing from you. It has been a really tough day today, our admn assistant is leaving today, so there are tears everywhere. At lease I can kind of blend my red eyes it.

No, the woman did not say anything other than wanting hay or hoping to be able to work during hay season. She said that it wasn't anything like I was thinking and that she had a boyfriend that she was very happy with. What ever. She was very nice and warm to me on the phone. Almost kind. She was not defensive, rude or suspicious sounding.

Having had time to really again study both months worth of the calls, I can see where he made the first call to her. She returned it and they talked for 25 minutes. There were several other calls, all initiated by him. Most were for 1 minute, which is what it would take to connect and leave a message. The next longest call was for 7 minutes and it clearly looks like he was the one calling her. Never were the calls initiated by her. If anything, they were returned after he called first. Most were not returned.

Right now, he makes me sick. I know that he is in as much if not more pain than me, but I am the one wanting to throw up.


Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.

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