Did the woman have any story to offer other than wanting hay? how many calls every month does it take to say yes or no? My H's ow had a million reasons she said she needed to contact H, she must have done them one at a time to rack up all that cell phone time starting at 5am before her H woke up and after 10pm when he went to bed and she hid in her bathroom to call my H month after month.
Originally Posted By: 1hope
Well, that's the reason then. I actually wondered about it this morning after my drama. I was thinking about all of us, and wondered if it was the stars, or if by chance we were all feeding off ourselves? I know now it the not the latter.
Trying to say this lightly - don't rule out the latter. In my time on these boards I have seen it often where things will sway a direction. I do think it is how we relate to other sitchs while we live our own sitchs. It's hard to stick to your own life if everyone else is blowing up.
The holidays are a stressful time for so many reasons, and adding a bad M or a WAS to the mix can become unbearable. Stand tall and be strong, but understand the WAS is more messed up than the LBS. Honor yourself, don't be drug down to their level.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
