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Originally Posted By: Babygirl
i swear i had no idea we could really cry so many tears, and i think you can literally die of a broken heart! its insane but my heart really does hurt.


and BG....I told my H those exact words...that if you could die of a broken heart then I'm on my way....and your heart really does hurt...really....mine is actually numb now....I have thoughts of them together...of him actually having a child with her...but he wasnt' there when she delivered..and get this...the child's birthday is the day before mine....I will be forever reminded...and his new OW...her birthday is our anniversary....talk about punch in the gut...well....more like a knife twisting daily in the heart...


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T with an i, I will pray for you and your children.

We are stronger than any of this evilness.


Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.

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BG- You have so many good people here who are praying for you and your kids. We have to be thankful for what we know we have, and are blessed with. try and enjoy your cooking and baking. Take care of yourself. Sorry I don't have any words of wisdom!


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Ok, how do you know my name has an "i"....LOL


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LOL we have the same name different spelling me and hope! I always mean to ask her her middle name lol to see if its like mine too!
i had a friend in school we both spelled traci the same way and had the same middle name!


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Originally Posted By: Babygirl
LOL we have the same name different spelling me and hope! I always mean to ask her her middle name lol to see if its like mine too!
i had a friend in school we both spelled traci the same way and had the same middle name!


Now that's bizarre!!


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well H called coming here to talk, he better stay clear over there in the other side of the room, and NOT touch me! seriously, i cant handle that. i am so angry, and more angry he dumped it in my lap, and left, and left ya'll to pick me up and clean up his mess.
seriously, i dont even know what to say to him. i told him last nite, i would NEVER trust them alone together, there would be rules if we tried, he didnt like that. oh well, he should have kept his pecker in his pants, the only part about this whole deal that is FUNNY to me, is they had to do paternity, as she didnt know which ONE of the guys was the babys daddy! thats evil i know but alas we knew she was a skank!
i have no idea what to do, what to say, and will have to buckle down hard if he says something stupid to not rips his nuts off as one of my DB girls calls it lol!
omg i had finally quit cryin,and now its gonna happen again. happy thanksgiving family i had a 3 year affair and have a son! UGH!


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You can do this too!! Just hang in there through. Don't worry about how you respond so much...you are entitled to any response you need to give!!!

I love you, girlie!!!

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{{{BG}}} I agree with Amy.. I think, at this stage, you just need to say what you need to say, and, hard as it may be, to listen to what he says..

Then, if that doesn't work, then punch him LOL \:\) (just kidding!)

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well nothing, he came in and crashed on the couch. actually that let me breathe for a bit longer! whew!

oh tawnya dont tempt me lol!


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