tying another knot #8

[marriedCrazy]

BG....Sorry for this sweetie. I'm glad you got my message in the other world. I've been praying for you several times already. I had Santa Mom in the house last night; so I was handicapped. But you've got such strong support in others as well. I'm glad that you sought me out however; as many as we can get praying for you the better.

There is plenty of good advice in this thread; heed it. I don't need to offer up anymore than what's already been said.

(((((((BG)))))))))

Hit me up in the alt. if you need something; I'm going to be away for til Friday. Don't give up Thanksgiving; you need normalcy.

[MT35]

BG- She called my cell when I was delivering my pies. Sorry I missed you. My phone is now dead, I hate it and need another one. BG-You are so much in my prayers. Keep baking and cooking, it is good therapy. Take care of yourself first.

[kelaaron]

BG-msg in the alt. Taking cat to vet at 2 but otherwise.

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

I have talked to her. Her doc cut through, though. She sounds good, all things considered, but she is spewing at her H and I cannot say I blame her.

SMW

[Babygirl]

hey all, i love you all so much right now you have no idea. when i was here all alone in my pain last nite, i realized how truly alone i am in the real world, and so wished I could just crawl in here with ya'll.
i am so hurt so mad, i think i have invented some new cuss words in the past day. yesterday seems like forever ago, yesterday I wanted nothing in the world more than my H. today, i dont know if i do anymore. 3 years at least of lies and deception, as i told amy last nite, this is every womans nitemare, and the sad thing is, I will never be able to trust him around ow again. never. if I stay with him that means I have to deal with her forever. and I cant do that. i can not.
in his email, he never said i am sorry, he didnt put an i love you in it. its all about him, if he truly was sorry, he would say so, if he loved me he should have said so, and I dont give a flying monkeys ass about his job, or him being tired last nite. THIS should have mattered. he left me completely alone in the devastation that was our family.
he made his bed, he can now lie in it. i really dont think this is one thing i can forgive if ever.
i love you all and thank you for your wisdom and wonderful words. please pray for my children, they are really gonna need them.

[Tawnya]

{{{BG}}}} prayers for you and for your children my friend!

Tawnya

[Babygirl]

i swear i had no idea we could really cry so many tears, and i think you can literally die of a broken heart! its insane but my heart really does hurt.

[Tawnya]

BG..yep..when my bomb first happened I felt like that..I told someone recently that it was like someone punched me in the chest and it just wouldn't stop hurting..

Tawnya

[Treese]

Hi BG....I have just found your posts first on Sugar & Spices thread..

You are so not alone....I wish I could get you my personal email or give you my cell....but I can tell you that you can get it from Virtually Handsome if you would like to talk...let me tell you why...

I post on midlife if you ever want to go and read some of my threads..


I found out my H had a son through and anonymous email in March of this year...but he is 9...imagine that...my H knew all these years and never told me....since then the girl has filed for child support...yep...he's never paid a dime...paternity has just come back...court ordered...it is his....I have been crushed...we have been married 24 years...together 30...he now has another GF..... been out of the house since January..he has to go to court in December to see what he has to pay the mother...we have 3 children who are crushed....I would so love to talk to you....

I'm praying for you...hang in there....it's tough but so are we....

(((hugs)))

[kat727]

Hon, I responded on my thread. Just try to enjoy the day, all the other crud can wait. Think of everything that is good in your life and take strength from that. Happy Thanksgiving. hugs,

kat