(((((Lisa)))))
Almost missed you there!

(((((Ali)))))
It is positive. It's gotten things off of stuck!

She hasn't said that she doesn't want to be M. She said she didn't know what she wanted. But, she doesn't ACT like someone that wants to be M. She also doesn't ACT like someone who wants to be D. I think she was content with things as they were. Now she is going to have to pick one, and commit to it. I don't think she likes that very much.

The mattress is no big deal, she would have another excuse, I guarantee it.