Obi-wan says.....At the beginning I did touch and try to hug and kiss him but he would stiffen up and back away. I stopped doing that. He stopped telling me he loved me a the time of the bomb and wasn't even able to tell me ILY until a year ago and he was living at home months before that.
IMO, I would go by the actions of your H. My H sent me big signals but stiffening up and backing away. It will come with time. Now my H can't keep his hands away!!! LOL
