Snodderly advised me when I was at this point that this is where alot of the LBS's give up. It is very hard and frustrating.
I kept my mouth shut, let him do what he needed to do. At the very end I was out of patience and I told him that he needed to get it together and until he could do that, he needed to stay away from me, no calling or coming over. I think that finally got to him. Of couse it did take some time but he did tell me when I did that he was afraid of loosing me for good.
I will check on you later. Keep doing what you are doing, you are doing better than you think.
