Very, very excited to read these developments. You're doing a great job! She's giving you a lot of feedback to work on.
1. The mattress, she gave you a clear signal there buddy. Gently see if she'll help you pick one out. Financial stuff can wait. Might be a great shock and awe, show her you really want her back in the room.
2. Sleeping hours, right there with ya from one night owl to another. Man, that was really hard in marriage. How amazing of a 180 would it be if you changed that for a bit? See what happens? Really, what do you have to lose?
We're all pulling for you!
(((Jeff)))
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK