In your sitch, did you ever initiate touching, or did you just leave that all up to your H? I'm not talking about ML, but about other light touching. My H is so very "tight" right now and I wish he could loosen up. I am a very affectionate person normally and physical affection is the one area H and I NEVER had any issues. I have told him that I want to try to not be so "reluctant" because every time I find myself going to touch him, I freeze and think about OW, and I don't want to do that anymore! I don't want OW to have that power over me!! H said he understood that and was supportive, but he is still very withdrawn. And I want to touch, but I don't want to pressure him, but that may be a way of connecting with him that he could understand, you know? What do you think?
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
