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[Sophie]

Well...now, H may REALLY avoid Thanksgiving.

I don't know how the legal interchange btwn L's works...

My L called today....that was a relief.

My L seems to truly understand what I want to do at this time.

All I have to do is respond to the 'Complainer'....as opposed to a more aggressive approach of 'no...I AM going to counter and ask for a D based on...

My L said he had to make a phone call to H's L today... (I will read/work on/sign final draft next week)...

My L said he's going to tell H's L something like:
'She did not agree to seperation, nor does she feel there is no chance for reconciliation. However, she recognizes Complainer wants to do this and if it proceeds, she will file a 'cross bill' based on disertion'.

My L doesn't want to divulge anymore than that to H's L at this time.

But....what does H's L do? If this phone call is made today, will H's L call him about our intent?

I am thinking this next step is going to POP H's D bubble and plan to be friends.

And...Thanksgiving for H.

Kids and I'll be fine. We are alone 90% of the time anyway. We are used to it.

Th