Thanks Kel. My heart tells me that neither of them were telling me the exact truth. I felt it immediately when I saw the first bill.
When we was talking to me today he kept stressing certain words like He had not DONE anything with her, he had not TALKED to anyone in weeks etc. bla bla bla.
She told me today that they had played phone tag. That's pretty much a lie now that I think about it and looking at the call list. He did most of the calling to her. It was not tag by any means.
She probably does have a boyfriend. But I can tell that he was probably pursuing her and it probably didn't go further than that. And that my friend, hurts more than I can say.
I am going to calmy restate my boundry to him tonight if I get the chance. I don't know yet what my words will be, but I will not live with insecurity. If he can't make me feel secure in being his wife, I will work hard on making it not matter to me. It will be his loss.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
