Already been all over that site, father's rights sites, spoke with attorneys, the whole nine yards.
Only 2 ways to get her off, she gets her own and provides a statement of benefits as proof or finalized divorce.
FIL took the news ok as I told him she has commited herself to her choice and I will no longer be the caretaker of her belongings nor bear the financial burden of a life she left behind.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11