Oh Diane! At least he is trying with more calls and texts. Maybe he just doesn't know what it is he wants to say in a letter yet. That or when he is away he simply enters his "bubble", as Baggy says, and in this comfort zone doesn't really think about it. It may be a stretch for him to just phone & text more.

Maybe this will give him something to think about now though. And just maybe this was the gentle pressure on his "reins" to get him moving again. I sure hope so for you Diane, I know how it feels to make a plea for change only to have things fall back to their "safe zone" when the dust has settled.

I'll pray that your H will see how important this is to the both of you.

Cinco