Finally a new wifey thread

[Rob1231]

Hi KJo, Checking in after a long while away from the BB. I'm sorry that you are still at this point in your sitch.

You know, you can't make him change. You can only change yourself. You've been DBing for (I think) about six months now. With that in mind...

How are YOU significantly different, as a person, than when you started? Please answer this question without a single reference to your H.

How are YOU significantly different in the ways that you interact with your H? Please answer this question focusing on your own actions, not his.

The stuff you are hearing from H seems to be the exact same stuff you have heard consistently from him for the past six months. As MWD says, when what you are doing isn't working, do something else....

(((Hugs!)))