I'm glad you and Lisa had a wonderful practice last night and that the royal visit went well. I'll look forward to seeing the pics on your FB.
Regarding your H, I am totally at a loss.
I like that you are trying to maintain clear boundaries. That is SO important.
Can you call the finance company and talk to them about any possible ramifications to you should you sign this debt over to him? Since you are still legally M'd I believe they could still come after you for the amount if he defaults (at least I know in the US they can and do) unless they put some stipulation into the wording of the new contract.
Arm yourself with the information first, then decide how to proceed with the contact/no contact.
That's the best advice I can give right now. I'm sorry I'm not much help, but I am definitely here and in the alt universe to listen any time.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!