Your D sounds very mature. Sometimes it is good to have talks with the kids if you know they can handle it.
Your H is going to have a miserable holiday but this is good and it will force him to think! He will be missing your food, his families food, all the love and laughter and he has none of that. Your D is right, he is NOT happy with ow.
I hope that you will have a nice day with your kids tomorrow.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19