TAL,

He reminds me so much of my S25. When he was young he was terrible at other kids' birthday parties, especially his sister's. He just couldn't stand that the party wasn't for him. Now he won't go to that kind of an event. If he's not the center of attention, he doesn't want to be there. I think you have a 2 year old with temper tantrums, and I'm not talking about your offspring.