I sent my email to my h saying that I knew that he had moved in with another woman 2 weeks ago and I heard nothing. Last night I got a text back from him saying
'Hi, I hope you're ok and (our cat) is too. Just wanted to let you know that I'm not ignoring your email you sent the other day, I've just had a week's holiday so haven't had a chance to reply. I wondered if you could do me a favour though... The finance for the car is in your name currently. Would you be happy to transfer it to my name? If so you just have to write to them telling them that's what you want to do and give them my name and address. Hope that's ok. H.'
I wondered if anyone had any specific advice as I don't know how to respond to that. My feelings are that - he is avoiding the email I sent (in my first post at the top of this thread) and it is insensitive of him to do this. - I know he was on holiday with the other woman (should I ignore this aspect?) - I don't want to transfer anything without know exactly why, I need to protect myself and also he has not given me his new address. - he has not made any moves to do anything about other bills however, he has the car and pays for the finance himself as I do not drive (we bought it two weeks before him moving out for me to learn on).
I could not repsond (which would be a 180) but at the same time I don't want to seem uncooperative and for things to turn ugly.
