That night that we talked for a long time, when she found out how I texted OM a month ago, she said how she repented for what she had done. And that made it all right. In her mind, at least. She had repented.
She knows better. If you have truly repented then you DON'T KEEP DOING IT. She is looking for you to validate her, don't.
I'm sorry H4H, she is still very messed up, but at least she realizes that its not you, that is a small step, but still a step. Listen to WDID on the holiday thing. I am going to have to do that same thing. If things don't change for me, H is going to have to spend Christmas with his family and my kids w/o me there. He will get what he thought he wanted. Its not to be ugly or vindictive, its about not putting myself through it. I'm talking to my C about it and we'll see what happens.
Have a great Thanksgiving and I'll check in when I get back.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
