MT, don't be so hard on yourself but do stay strong and follow thru with your boundaries. H took just a few things, he is making a show of moving out and wants you to beg him to come back home. As Kel says, nothing will change if you allow that to happen.
You did right when you did not call him. He called you! IMO, you can say ILY but do not pursue him now. Let him flap like clothes on a line but you are the post that holds the line. You are strong.
I'd love to be at your house with all the wonderful scents! (((MT35)))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
