I had a very intresting conversation with my wife last night. I'll post about this later.
I have had to pick and chose my battles too.
Just remember you are the one that is thinking clearly right now. Try your best to keep that in mind. Your wife is suffering and she does need your kindness and compassion. You have to find the balance of not getting trampled on but also try to understand she is suffering in a way we will never be able to fully comprehend.
