We talked VERY briefly after the kids went to bed. I kept it short and sweet. Asked H why he was still in the house. Was it only b/c he didn't have another place to be? Because it gave him access to the kids? He said, "That's part of it...." I said well what is the other part, and got that infamous sigh and "I don't know"...
Then I asked, "What am I to you? Your friend, the mother of your kids...."
He immediately answered, "You are my wife....I love you and I will always love you"
I said, "If I am still your wife in your eyes, why are we doing this?"
He said, "Because I don't know how to do anything else..."
So he is going to start sleeping at his mom and dad's tonight, we are doing our Thanksgivings w/our families separately, but he wants to give the kids b.s. reasons why we aren't at them together, like he has to work during my family celebration and I am sick during his, etc...
