"She also mentioned that she will be in our room over the weekend."..WOW! She actually told you this time, instead of turning up! Thats brilliant, wow, what an effect your letter has had.
"I told her that I would like her to move back in permanently." - WOW!! You did !? Look at you go now! Thats so manly of you! She didnt freak out then, or say no,
"She said that she (1) hates the mattress, and (2) is really bothered by getting up much ealier than I do."
I agree.. GO GET A MATTRESS!!! Get it on 0% finance.. or in a sale. Tell her you listened to her complaint, felt she was right and wanted to show her that you listen.. so you bought a new mattress. She is giving you an opening here, take it! You might be playing hide-the-snake by New Year at this rate!!
"I said that I could adjust my schedule a bit, so that there wasn't that kind of problem. She said that I shouldn't do that, that she had adjusted her schedule to match mine when we were first married, and regretted it. I tried to explain that it really wouldn't be a bad thing if I did, but she didn't want to hear it. So I said maybe there was a compromise to be reached. She seemed to agree with that"
Again.. WOW !! You guys are negotiating! (in fact, even talking is amazing!). Defo change your schedule!
Today, Pluto moves signs.. its a shift, a change of the old order, end of the last 10-15 yaers.. into a new order. Its death and rebirth stuff. I'm not picking up here that she is pro-D, or its over, I see a woman slightly panicking and running to catch up a little with you and you growing in strength, power...
Of course, you are a Sagi and Pluto is moving OUT of Sagi.. so, this is huge for you Jeff this week.. and ongoing. Its a new start. Your ace!
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
