That's too bad you are far away from family. Family grounds people. When I was making bad choices, I avoided family because it made me feel guilty and ashamed.
Congratulations on the weight loss. That's a huge amount. Consensus around the DB parts....Aqua di Gio is a goooood cologne. I got my H some for his birthday. When he wears it I just want to be close to him. He said, "I should have gotten this a looooooooooooooooong time ago."
Don't blame yourself, thinking if you hadn't lost weight, this all wouldn't have happened. She made the choice.
I will add you guys to my prayer list. I hope you have a good Thanksgiving.