I understand how you feel about the house. I have done a ton of work on mine too. Man, You got to slow down a bit and think before you make major agreements with her.
Now that you have agreed to give her the house your going to have to be very careful on how you approach this. DO NOT let this turn into a fight, you will fuel her fire. Most MLC'ers are "renters" if you will. They do not want the burdens of up keep on a home. That should work in your favor a bit. Please slow down and think about a good way to deal with this. Do not feed her justifications.
Is your agreement in writing? Is it a done deal?
Originally Posted By: Jeff3
Now they know, I have huge support and they want me to stay, offering any help they can!! That is hard to find any where! I think I couldn't see through my emotions!
Jeff! If your neighbors can see through you your wife can read you like a childrens book. You have got to be STRONG. You have to get this in check, like yesterday man. I'm not dogging you just telling like it is.
DO NOT DISCUSS THIS WITH YOUR NEIGHBORS. DO NOT LET THEM SEE YOUR EMOTIONS EITHER.
Remember the two reasons why your here.
1. To become a better person PERMANENTLY. FOR YOU.
2. To possibly save your marriage.
How will your wife feel if the whole neighborhood knows your business? Chances are she may never want to come back to you, let alone be comfortable being seen by them.
Remember she is sick right now. The OM is her drug.
