TOH:

I would say that it is not all bad news. Your H went back to his place, to think, be alone which he needs, and he said he does not have ow.

One year in MLC time is not that long.

My h has been gone for over two years mixed in with about 8 weeks of being back home.

There will be times when you realize based on his moods, that you are thankful he has somewhere to go and not have his bad moods affect everyone in your household.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19