LMAO!!!!! ok well ugh ya'll can eat my share of them, i wont eat them lol! hope work is going better my friend love you
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Ok girls, I'm working on it. You all will think it's warm in the middle of winter. BG-I'll make you shrimp, or crab, or a nice juicy filet mignon if you don't eat seafood but I'm in for the oysters.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
Yeah, I think it is time for a mountain oyster party somewhere warm!!
I have actually had them, at a party in the U.P. They weren't bad, until someone told me what they were. I was only 20 at the time, and totally grossed out. Now I figure, if I'm going to cut them off, I might as well eat them hehehe!
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
My Grandpa use to have a field trial at his farm, where lots of guys came in and they hunted quail on horseback with pointer dogs and they had a big cookout on the pit with a hog, and I can remember a pile of them, looked like a mountain when you are only 5 or so, mountain oysters fried up. If I remember right...they taste like chicken!!
Well friends, not a good morning at my house today.
H started out by being mildly asinine and I came unglued. I guess that the new unknown woman that he has been calling for the past 2 months, along with the recent accusatory behavior towards me was more than I could hold down. He was very cruel to me yesterday on the phone when I was finally able to reach him in the afternoon. I told him that I was having a hard time, and he said "what's wrong are you feeling insecure?" I admitted that I was, and he said, well you're not going to ride my ass all winter because of it! That really hurt, and I guess I stewed on it all night.
I confronted him about the phone calls that he has been making and he flat out lied to me. I cast off all DBing and begged him to tell me who he was calling. He lied again.
Well, his phone was laying on the dining room table, and it was on (unusual for that time of the morning) so I dialed the number, and guess what? The woman answered! I asked who she was, and she hung up on me! H went ballistic and tried to wrestle the phone away from me. My fingers are now black and blue, but he was not successful in getting it away from me. We argues some more and he still would not be honest. The phone rang while I was holding it so I answered. It was one of our plow accounts asking him to come salt. I gave him the phone and left the room. He had still not mounted the salter on our truck,(who knows what he has really been doing all week) and he wanted me to help him with that. I refused and told him that I was finished helping him with all of his dirty work if he was going to be making calls and/or seeing other women. He could get those sluts to help him.
Not good, but I feel pretty calm. I will be surrounded by my family tomorrow and frankly, I don't care if he is there or not. I am really sick about the things that he has put me through in the last year. I am at my limit.
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Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
When H left to do the salt run, I called the woman back from my cell phone. Of course I got her voice mail. I told her who I was, and that I knew that my H had been calling her. I pretty much laid everything on the line and told her that his explanation was that they had been talking about her wanting hay. Then I asked her to call me back.
She did, and I told her that I did not want her to think that I was some pscho b!tch, but that I had found these calls on my H's cell bill and I I am in the process of recovering from a recent bout of cancer and that my H had an A with a friend during my illness, and that my world and emotions had been pretty much turned upside down. She said, "that's some friend." I replied, not any more. She said that she had been talking to my H that they had played phone tag, but that she had a boyfriend and it was nothing like I was thinking. She was actually pretty nice on the phone. Told me that tomorrow was Thanksgiving, to just try and relax and enjoy the day tomorro. I told her that I was sorry for bothering her and wouldn't be calling her again.
Just after that, H came home and into the house. He said, I thought you were going to work. I said I am. He said well you're late and I said that doesn't matter. He then went into the shower, and I got a copy of his recent cell bill with all of the calls to her. I wrote on the bottom of it, "I guess I am insecure. There were even more calls last month." Then I left and came to work.
I have not heard from him and I don't care. If we did not have my family coming for dinner tomorrow I would not even go home tonight. But we do, so I will go home after work, clean and bake my pies.
The only thing that he can say to me as an excuse for his behavior is that I drove him to it by being a controlling b!tch. I have been a good wife to him and I really deserve so much more than this type of treatment.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
