Kakatal, I know what you mean about not wanting your spouse back if she is not willing to face her own issues. My H is the same way, very much in his own world. Can't see beyond his own needs and I wouldn't want him back the way he is now anyway.
Everyone says there's no guarantee that they will 'snap out of it' but we can only hope, right? I would like to ask what you are doing to move on emotionally from her and detach. I need some advice that way and you seem to be doing so well.
My thread is in Infidelity - PM thread #2 if you want to visit. Any/all advice is hugely appreciated :-)
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
