TOH,
My H just moved out yesterday, 13 months post-bomb, signed a year's lease on an apartment, said he needs some time and space to figure out what to do. Sound familiar? I think I know how you feel. Try for no expectations...

Peace,
Dawn

Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
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