Hm...I feel like I should clarify what I meant when I wrote..."I'm done." I mean that I am done trying to reach her - I'm going to focus on myself and my children - and that is all. Her life is her own now - for her to do with it as she will...but I will not put up with her insults in front of my son, and will not allow her to dictate how I parent our son. I am not locking her out of my life - having a child with her makes that impossible - but I am not going to let myself dwell on hopes of what could have been - or what could still be...so "I'm done" doesn't mean that I am angry with her - or finished caring about her - or feeling for her sadness and pain - it just means that I am done holding back my life for her.
