She just keeps getting worse...tonight when she came to pick up the baby he protested again - saying no mommy - and so I talked to him in an excited, happy voice - and then took him out to see his mom waiting be the car (she doesn't come to the door anymore). She came around toward our side of the car and, without saying hello, said, "put him down" - I was holding him and he was hugging me -so I said, "let me just hand him to you." To which she said, "don't be a d-ck." Once again, I was stunned...and I was just about to say goodbye to my son and go back inside when I instead walked back to her and said, "you know, I please don't insult me in front of our son. That's just wrong." And she apologized..but remained angry...
After that she told me that she wanted to pick up our baby early on December 2 (at 5pm) because she's "getting together with a friend that really wants to meet him." She said it in such a weird way - like she wanted it to sound mysterious and threatening to me...
When she left, I went into the house - and just felt another part of my heart break...not that I want to keep her in my life - or find a way to reconcile with her - but just hearing my son's wife insult me in front of him was just so very sad...very sad...
For the last ten years I've cooked for Thanksgiving - and she and i had made our own little tradition of making gourmet meals instead of Turkey...but I would be home alone this time - and so instead I'm going to spend it with some friends - my closest friend from high school actually happens to live out here too...so I'll be with him and his partner on Thanksgiving. And will then have my boys with me on Friday and Saturday - and then just my S11 on Sunday - so it will be a wonderful weekend.
