txmom, tough decision about thanksgiving for you. These holidays are really messing with our minds. Maybe let him see his D's for an hour and let him see you are on your way out for a fun day. So then H will see what he is missing. My H is coming all day which is a whole nother story.

Let me know about info you find out about divorce in Texas. I am in the same boat.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09