If this is what you need to heal, then I totally support it, and you. Its not hurting your son, its not hurting you, and who cares what it does to your H?
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I think once I got the all ok on my health the anger that I had been holding at bay came flooding in. I dont want to carry it, I want to just move on
Its almost like you are 'allowed' to feel now, and its crashing in. That's ok. And I promise, you will move on. You will feel better. You won't always be angry.
Its a wonderful sign just that you know you don't want to be this way.
We all know the WAS grumble and try to make us seem like crazy people when we enforce boundaries, but eventually they buck up and do it. Glad to see your H is doing it too.
