Hi na and glam-I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving too. Yes, my H did say last night that he wanted to spend at least some of Thanksgiving with me but this morning he stopped by and he wasn't quite so sure about what he wanted to do. He was talking the possibility of going to out of town to his D's since his trial got postponed. He says he misses his D (understandably) but there is obviously more to it. So, I talked to him about why he seems so uneasy to see my mother. He said he is sure she isn't happy with him. I told him that my mother has made her own mistakes so she understands (she had her own MLC). He acknowledged that but then he said that he hurt her daughter. There was no way that I could disagree with that. I later told him that if we do get back together, he will have to see my mother sometime and that this would be a way to start the healing.
When my H left this morning, he said he would call me later and maybe come by. I didn't hear from him tonight. Funny because last night at C we were talking about how my H didn't contact me for 3 days. He said I could have contacted him and he said he ALWAYS returns text messages. I told him that I don't like to contact him because I want to give him his time and space plus if I do try to contact him and get no reply, my mind starts to wander. So what did I do tonight when I didn't hear from him? I sent him a text asking how work was today. I got no reply.
When my H and I are at C, he talks like he really is trying and he says a lot of what I want to hear. Then there is no follow through...why? If he only knew how this hurts me.
