Thanks, Just went to the lawyer today and we agreed on everything, she is going to get the house and buy me out. Things went smooth.
But....... I have been thinking I love my house and my neighborhood I am friends with half the people on my street. I have put a tonne of work into the house. It's perfect for visits from my family because it backs onto the park! I now regret agreeing to letting her buy me out. I didn't want to be house poor. Untill now no one on my street new the sitch although they guessed because when I went to work she would pull up with her older "friend" into our drive way. Now they know, I have huge support and they want me to stay, offering any help they can!! That is hard to find any where! I think I couldn't see through my emotions! I won't have alot of money but would be happy hanging out at my house with my friends and family. I also love working on my house!! I am going to talk to the bank in the morning to see if I can afford it. I only hope if I can she will let me have it. I know that she really can't afford to run it and has no Idea how to fix anything.
I feel now why should I start over when it wasn't what I wanted she has always wanted to move anyway. I think this would be GAL for me!!!! but I don't want it to be messy!
That's my rant for the night, just came back from a hockey game The Toronto Maple Leafs got beat by Atlanta ouch!!!
Jeff Out!
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
