Oh, And I will add one more thread to his web. Since maybe 2002, I was my H's best friend until he left. Bob, his BF he has known only 1 1/2 years. After Bob gets out of jail he's supposed to move in w/my H. Bob will also need a chaffuer for the next 36 months because of his drunk driving record.

For me that's hanging my personal life hat too close to my job hat.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)