I think that is a good idea as well. Be patient, H will contact you. It may be a few days, but he will contact you. For whatever reason, he knows it is in his best interest.
Did you have a good day at work? I am sure you made someone's life a little happier or comfortable. I know you at least smiled some during the day. I bet your smile made someone's day. If that is true you accomplished what everyone once to do, to touch the life of a person to make their day happier.
No matter what happens in your "hotmess" know that you did make someone around you happier. And knowing that you did this unselfish act will make you feel that your life is not all bad. You should feel good about that.
Day one: W came home to a candle light dinner and a row of candles leading her to her room. Her bed was laid down with red satin sheets and a yellow rose. She watched the Knox dead Romanic DVD of our enchanted night just last weekend. She watched it twice while wearing her sear nightgown. She was a Knox out herself. I past the test.
Now we are going into day/night 2. Going great so for.
All is well here! I am just working a sh*t-ton!!! I am out of school for thanksgiving break and trying to rake in some much needed extra cash!!! So I am working 6 out of 7 days this week!!! Rock on for the money! Not so much fun for this side!!!
Anywho, H text msgd. me last night...said he just wanted to see what was going on and to check to see if I had scheduled another appt with the C. I was cordial but short...he read right through, wanted to know what was up...i said nothing, just had a lot going on with work etc. he said he was sorry...wow...wtf???
so....needless to say, that was an interesting short but sweet conversation.
hope all is well with your sitch!!
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
WOW !!! It looks like your plan is working. He contacted you. Next time you may want to wait for an hour or so before you respond. It is add a little curiosity to his thinking. Stick to your plan. It looks to be working.
I work for an institution that gives everyone off Thursday and Friday for Thanksgiving. For some of us it is a welcome time off to enjoy Thanksgiving and then there others like you that need to work to make some money. I hope you at least take some time to enjoy being around some of your friend and family. All work and no play will make Christa tired, sad and stresses. You need to remember to take care of number one first. When you are refreshed the crosses you caring will not seem to be so heavy. It will not remove them, but it will make them easier to carry.
My sitch is going real well. Each time W and I spend a few days and nights together my sitch improves by leaps and bounds. She is realizing that the changes I have made are real and just talk. We are spending the Thanksgiving holiday together. I plan to keep everything as romantic as possible. I will let her take the lead. Stop and go as slow or as fast as she wants. I think that we are experiencing happy, trust and love emotion that we have not had for many, many years. It feels good to both of us.
I hope that you have a peaceful and safe Thanksgiving. You earned a little time to be thankful for what you have and the for chance you still have to get something back that you miss so much.
Take Care. Do not work to hard and please keep in touch.
Thing are GRRRRRRRRRREAT here in TX!!!!!!! I could not be more happy about the way my sitch is going. W told me that she Loved me without me saying it first yesterday. That is the first time in a very long time since she has said that to me. W told both kids that she is really enjoying the time she is spending with me. I have made a lot of positive changes. She told them that my change in demeanor and all of my positive attitudes has inspired her into going back to C. We have have a very romanic 4 nights. She has warn every sexy nightgown she has in her closet. I guess I will have to go to Victoria Secrets and pick up a couple more for her.
I have booked a 5 day curse to the western Carabean for April. She knows to mark out those day in April, but she does not know why now. It is going to be a Xmas present. My Birthday is next Sat. and I told her that the only present I want from her is just spending quality time with.
I am sorry for running and running on about my sitch, but ife has not felt this good to me for years.
I hope you have enjoyed some of your time off from school. When we get back to my job, I will only have 10 working day until we shut down for the holiday break. We get out on the 12/12 and come back on 1/2.
I will touch base with you tomorrow. When is your next appointment with C?
I am out of school for thanksgiving break and trying to rake in some much needed extra cash!!! So I am working 6 out of 7 days this week!!! Rock on for the money! Not so much fun for this side!!!