Is there any hope after D for reconcillitation?

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JUne
You do sound strong
This journey is about us as well
you will find your way
Most LBS wind up better than before, healthy and strong
as for your H
He is following the script hios dad did
My H dad also left..I never even met him
I think your story is similar to many here
they find OW
fall in love
they are in a fog and can only see this as their new source for happiness
its not that they dont love us..the new person is an addiction like a drug
they will not give them up
they run and blame us but the theory is they are runninmg from their past..the pain of their childhood, so ow is jusy a fantasy
she may appear positive but under the fog she is most likely a vulture
they affair down..meaning they pick controlling , needy woman
chances are the papradise life will not be found with his ow and ponytail
you take care of you
talk to your son..let your kids see your strengh
encourage any R with kids and H..even if its by phone
this way kids wont feel as abandoned
I dont knoe if I diod the right thing but I told my kids H was in a crises
we prayed for him
he visits 4x a week..we are friends

my kids and I are more bonded..
they know I am committed to them
one parent is better than none
You are in the right place
keep posting sometimes you will get few responses till people get to know you
you will be ok
peace