TxMom- help I'm still hopeful -#2 post

[TxMomw/2girls]

SS we need to talk off line... I have questions and I'm sure more once my H files... (if he files) trying to be positive... how can we connect??

So sounds like you did not do colabortive law divorce? you can't go to court if you do this and both parties have to come to an agreement in one room...if you can't you'd have to fire your lawyers and start all over. It is the cheaper of them all and usually I've been told you can hopefully get more than a judge deciding for you.

LE - thanks for checking in... I do feel some days that having been exposed to DB so early on, literally week one from our C, that has helped me in the journey... I have so many friends that tell me how they can't believe how good I'm handling it all, although inside I'm falling apart, PM really put it straight... my H isn't going to see the light of day until this R plays out for him... I just miss him .. point blank and simple..

I just wonder for all of our spouses.. do they even miss us?? Think of all the things that would reminded them of us... my H and I love music... he would hear a thousand songs a week that he would have to think of us... but maybe they are so in the thick of it it doesn't matter...

Also, my H wants to see the girls on Thanksgiving for a bit (but remember he is leaving next day to meet up with OW) I don't want to use the kids but I kind of feel like he needs this one day to be alone without kids and without OW, to see how it really will be, he is over at our house way too much... I might let him grab them for a few hours but haven't decided... thoughts?

hang in everyone, I will play catch up this weekend I've been behind on reading and posting on others threads