Lost, feeling evil (shocker!) today so I guess I would have said, "Consideration is freely given when it is given as freely."
You probably handled it better than I would have, so I'm glad this post is coming after the fact.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option